They're both called parents, but mothers and fathers bond with their kids differently. For the mom, the relationship begins at conception and grows through the pregnancy and throughout life. For the father, the bond is forged at birth, when he first lays eyes on and holds his child. Most dads have to work harder than moms to sustain and nurture the bond they have with their children, and when they share a special relationship, it's easy to inspire their kids to go on to do great things in life. If you're a father, here are a few ways to inspire your children:
• Set an example: Rather than teach your children with words alone, show them what needs to be done by setting an example. If you want them to be healthy, eat healthy food and exercise regularly. This way, it's easier to get your kids involved in sports and also make them realize that junk food is not good for them. When you're hardworking and responsible, you teach your kids to be so too. They look up to you and want to emulate you when they grow up.
• Treat their mom well: Kids are very attached to their mothers as they grow up, so if you don't treat their mom well and accord her due respect, they're not going to like you or respect you, leave alone be inspired by you. The best thing you can do for your children is to love their mom and be nice to her.
• Spend time with them: Fathers who are absent most of the time from their children's lives don't have much of an impact on them. So if you want to inspire your children, be around for them and spend time with them; help them with their homework, play games with them, drive them around for their activities, and get to know what they like and who their friends are. This way, the bond between you becomes stronger.
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This article is contributed by Karen Anderson, who writes on the topic of online bible colleges. She welcomes your comments at her email: karen.anderson441@gmail.com
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